- The first step to master the art of love is the most difficult one, and it will not happen from one day to another.
You will also not see any progress if you don´t really want to Love yourself more or want to learn this.
So if your still here.. then I will teach you how you can literally chance your mind and by doing that change the way you think about yourself and how you might think other people think of you.
That sounds good right it is!
I remember when I first started my journey towards slowly learning to love my self I did not have any confidence I was the smallest person in the crowd, when I was with other people.
I was not good at anything worth being proud of, I was not good at sport I was not pretty I had glasses but yet I was not good in school either.. I was a really slow learner.
I was always too sensitive and too shy, so I did not talk much to anyone
and if all that was not enough then… I also did not have any parents and my siblings did not live with me they had other families so I was all alone….
but deep inside of me I had a will to give out love and good to people around me I was innocent and pure and I believed if I treat people with a kind heart.. then they will treat me the same.
That´s what the Disney movies thought me and my step parents
so why was I an outsider all alone and so small ?
because I did not step up for my self.
I did not know that it was okay, to say no! That if was okay to scold someone if they treat you bad and that I could chose to be with the people who accepted me, as I was and like that ..break free from the people who pick on me.
All of that I did not know and as time went by I was sicking deep deep down into a black hole of misery and pain.
I stopped caring about my homework, I played video games all day, I did want to spend time with anyone and I did not do any sport at all.
Lucky me I was on a really small school and my Danish teacher told me one day..that I was good at running.. really good and that in just a couple of weeks there would be this 100m turnament for a few school mine included.
so she told me that if I trained at home, she was sure that I could be the fasted of all the girls in my class.
The girls in the class was all very mean to me they talked behind my back, and they always tried to trick me and pick on my clothes.
so I was fired up ! I was motivated to win so that everyone could see that I was not completely useless, also my first love was in my class and he could do everything that I could not do, also he was a really fast runner.
So in order to impress him I had to do something.
So I started doing running training I quit playing video games.
I won over the girls that day at the tournament field, and I talked to my first love and he was proud of me.
that day I felt it deep down inside of me ..my confidence in myself /in my worth was rising.
It might sound easy when you read it like this ..but it was really hard there was times, I did not fell like training times I just did not believe in myself so what kept me going?
I wanted to see the other girls face, when it was announced that I had run the 100m fastest !
That feeling empowered me to keep going ,maybe it was my way of getting my revenge, i don´t know.
for the first time I stepped up for myself I was 14 years old at that time.
after that ahead the road many more fights had to be fought, but they where all inside of me,
no matter how old you are, no matter what qualifications you are born with or “mistakes” if you think that way,
you can overcome it and fully release, your true potential and also find a way of loving yourself.
I believe every single one of us is born with exactly, the skills we need to become successful,happy and healthy in this life.
That the reason we are born on this planet earth again is to do what we failed to do I our previous life.
And that is love until we reach that state of being we will always be born again.
Like a child always get a second chance if they fail at solving a math task reading a book or so on.
Like that the universe will always give us a second chance to become the best version of our self.